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Mar 31 2009

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Mar 31 2009

North Korea Threatens War Against Japan Over Missile

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According to Bloomberg news, North Korea’s government vowed to wage war against Japan if Japanese defense forces try to shoot down a missile that the communist nation says will carry a communications satellite.

“Should Japan dare recklessly to intercept the DPRK’s satellite, its army will consider this as the start of Japan’s war of reinvasion more than six decades after the Second World War,” the official Korean Central News Agency said today in an e-mailed statement. North Korea is also known as the Democratic People’s Republic of Korea.

Japanese Defense Minister Yasukazu Hamada ordered his forces on March 27 to shoot down any North Korean object entering his country’s airspace and deployed guided-missile units around Tokyo. Japan, along with the U.S., China, South Korea and Russia want to forestall North Korea’s plans to launch what the government in Pyongyang calls a “peaceful” satellite, and refocus on joint efforts to end its nuclear program.

“Bellicose rhetoric is not helpful to calming tensions in the region. North Korea needs to desist from this rhetoric,” U.S. State Department spokesman Robert Wood said.

North Korea accuses Japan of using the missile launch, scheduled to take place between April 4 and 8, as a pretext to build its own nuclear arsenal. U.S. Defense Secretary Robert Gates on March 29 called the launch “a mask” for development of an intercontinental ballistic missile.

“The primary aim sought by Japan through this is to bring the six-party talks to collapse and delay the denuclearization of the Korean peninsula and thus justify its ambition for nuclear weaponization,” according to the KCNA statement.

Japan doesn’t have atomic weapons and is the only country to have nuclear armaments used against it, during World War II. North Korea tested an atomic weapon in 2006 in the Korean peninsula’s first nuclear detonation.

Wow! This is really scary. Not to mention the fact that the missile could go as far as Alaska. I’m sure the U.S. would shoot it out of the sky before it gets close enough to us though. This could truly start another war, possibly a world war! I hope North Korea wises up and doesn’t launch this thing. They keep claiming its not a nuclear missile and/or a bomb or whatever, but why are they so deadset against launching it. America and Japan are nervous now that North Korea is going to try something on us. I guess we’ll just have to wait and see how all of this plays out in the next couple of days.

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Mar 30 2009

What a weekend!

Published by mandasparkle under Life, Opinion Edit This

Well I had an okay weekend, some of it filled with a little stress and drama though. I checked my e-mail Friday night to find out that the monogrammed makeup bags I ordered were out of stock, so the company is refunding me my money and not sending them to me. I went into the attic on Saturday around noon and hit my head really hard on one of the wooden beams that runs across the top of the house. Ouch! It really hurt, I put ice on it and luckily the pain went away.

I went shopping and found some really cute makeup bags at the Family Dollar store. I also got a gift for a friend whose birthday party I was going to the same day. Went home and watched the last two episodes of “Dollhouse” which is a new show that airs on Fox. Then me and my fiance went to the friends birthday party. Around 10:30 pm we left to come home. My head started to hurt again and I had a headache. I made the decision to go the ER to be seen, just in case I had seriously hurt my head. Luckily, everything checked out okay and I was sent home with the advice to just take some tylenol and advil and come back if the pain in my head got severe.

Sunday was a better day. It was a warm sunny day and we went out for breakfast. Then we decided to go bowling. We had a coupon for 99 cents per game. We played a couple of games and then went to McDonald’s for a $1 hot fudge sundae. We decided to go to some stores to see if there was anywhere that sold raw peanuts. We couldn’t find any so far. My fiance is now interested in growing peanuts and wants to give it a try. We stopped at Kroger, where I pulled out a handful of coupons to look through. We looked at the ad to see what was on sale and grabbed a basket to do some shopping. We bought quite a bit and saved a ton.

I had a coupon for $1.00 off of any Prego product, so I got a Prego spaghetti sauce
$1.00 off coupon on Bertolli frozen meal, was on sale for $3.99
$1.00 off coupon on two Betty Crocker brownie mixes, on sale for $2.00 each
$1.00 off on two Betty Crocker potatoes
$1.00 off something else, can’t remember what it was at the moment
Generic 2-liters of soda were on sale 3 for $2.00
Hamburger meat 1 lb for $1.99
Banquet Chicken dinner on sale for .99 cents (This is a great buy, because the chicken dinner has been marked up the last couple of months)

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Mar 27 2009

Fear of the unknown

Published by mandasparkle under Life, Opinion Edit This

I think it’s just stress that killing me inside right now. I’ve got a lot going on in my life and there are lots of things changing for me at the moment. Not to mention I’ve been upset with some family members lately too. For a week or so I have woken up and swore that someone was in the house with me. I lay in bed with my heart pounding, scared to death to see if I’m right. Well, that went away for a while and I finally began to have peaceful sleep again. That was, until last night. I think I’m letting paranoia and fear of the unknown in the dark get the best of me. I woke up to hear the cats making noises, then the cats came in our room and laid on the bed with us. I swore I could hear footsteps in the house. I don’t know. Maybe our house is haunted or something. It’s an old house and old houses squeak and creek at all hours of the night. I know that. But yet, I still have this irrational fear there’s someone in the house and I can’t get it out of my head once I wake up and begin thinking about it.

I got up and checked the house. No sign that anyone had broken in or that anyone was in the house. I went to the bathroom and then went back to bed, hoping I could go back to sleep. I lay back down and just start to drift off when all of a sudden I hear SMACK!!! I immediately sit up in bed, heart racing, adrenaline pumping, and look at the door to see that it is our cats who ran smack into the door and opened it further. “Jesus Christ!” I screamed. Which I know I probably shouldn’t take the Lord’s name in vain like that and I’m working on how to stop because it’s a really bad habit of mine. But I was really scared at that moment. The cats decided it would be fun to run around and chase each other, while making noises at each other as well. I think my problem is partly to blame on them for running around all night waking me up and then me being stressed and paranoid that for some reason someone is out to get me. I’ve had a couple of nightmares the last few weeks, some scary and others just really weird and strange.

All I know is I can’t wait for the next couple of months to pass to see where life is going to take me. I know I’m getting married soon and I have anxiety over the wedding and how it’s going to go, but I’ve accepted it won’t be perfect, because nothing in life is perfect. I’m having anxiety over money, both my job and the fact that my fiance is currently laid off and trying his hardest to get another job. Family isn’t making it any easier, just stressing me out more. I’m so happy it’s Friday, I need more relaxation time and more “I don’t care” time to just sit around and not care. Maybe that’s another problem I’ve always had, caring too much. Maybe if I cared less I would be a happier person.

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Mar 26 2009

Want welfare? Get a drug test!

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States consider drug tests for welfare recipients

By TOM BREEN

CHARLESTON, W.Va. (AP) — Want government assistance? Just say no to drugs.

Lawmakers in at least eight states want recipients of food stamps, unemployment benefits or welfare to submit to random drug testing.

The effort comes as more Americans turn to these safety nets to ride out the recession. Poverty and civil liberties advocates fear the strategy could backfire, discouraging some people from seeking financial aid and making already desperate situations worse.

Those in favor of the drug tests say they are motivated out of a concern for their constituents’ health and ability to put themselves on more solid financial footing once the economy rebounds. But proponents concede they also want to send a message: you don’t get something for nothing.

“Nobody’s being forced into these assistance programs,” said Craig Blair, a Republican in the West Viginia Legislature who has created a Web site — notwithmytaxdollars.com — that bears a bobble-headed likeness of himself advocating this position. “If so many jobs require random drug tests these days, why not these benefits?”

Blair is proposing the most comprehensive measure in the country, as it would apply to anyone applying for food stamps, unemployment compensation or the federal programs usually known as “welfare”: Temporary Assistance for Needy Families and Women, Infants and Children.

Lawmakers in other states are offering similar, but more modest proposals.

On Wednesday, the Kansas House of Representatives approved a measure mandating drug testing for the 14,000 or so people getting cash assistance from the state, which now goes before the state senate. In February, the Oklahoma Senate unanimously passed a measure that would require drug testing as a condition of receiving TANF benefits, and similar bills have been introduced in Missouri and Hawaii. A Florida senator has proposed a bill linking unemployment compensation to drug testing, and a member of Minnesota’s House of Representatives has a bill requiring drug tests of people who get public assistance under a state program there.

A January attempt in the Arizona Senate to establish such a law failed.

In the past, such efforts have been stymied by legal and cost concerns, said Christine Nelson, a program manager with the National Conference of State Legislatures. But states’ bigger fiscal crises, and the surging demand for public assistance, could change that.

“It’s an example of where you could cut costs at the expense of a segment of society that’s least able to defend themselves,” said Frank Crabtree, executive director of the West Virginia chapter of the American Civil Liberties Union.

Drug testing is not the only restriction envisioned for people receiving public assistance: a bill in the Tennessee Legislature would cap lottery winnings for recipients at $600.

There seems to be no coordinated move around the country to push these bills, and similar proposals have arisen periodically since federal welfare reform in the 1990s. But the appearance of a cluster of such proposals in the midst of the recession shows lawmakers are newly engaged about who is getting public assistance.

Particularly troubling to some policy analysts is the drive to drug test people collecting unemployment insurance, whose numbers nationwide now exceed 5.4 million, the highest total on records dating back to 1967.

“It doesn’t seem like the kind of thing to bring up during a recession,” said Ron Haskins, a senior fellow at the Brookings Institution. “People who are unemployed, who have lost their job, that’s a sympathetic group. Americans are tuned into that, because they’re worried they’ll be next.”

Indeed, these proposals are coming at a time when more Americans find themselves in need of public assistance.

Although the number of TANF recipients has stayed relatively stable at 3.8 million in the last year, claims for unemployment benefits and food stamps have soared.

In December, more than 31.7 million Americans were receiving food stamp benefits, compared with 27.5 million the year before.

The link between public assistance and drug testing stems from the Congressional overhaul of welfare in the 1990s, which allowed states to implement drug testing as a condition of receiving help.

But a federal court struck down a Michigan law that would have allowed for “random, suspicionless” testing, saying it violated the 4th Amendment’s protections against unreasonable search and seizure, said Liz Schott, a senior fellow at the Center on Budget and Policy Priorities.

At least six states — Indiana, Massachusetts, Minnesota, New Jersey, Wisconsin and Virginia — tie eligibility for some public assistance to drug testing for convicted felons or parolees, according to the NCSL.

Nelson said programs that screen welfare applicants by assigning them to case workers for interviews have shown some success without the need for drug tests. These alternative measures offer treatment, but can also threaten future benefits if drug problems persist, she said.

They also cost less than the $400 or so needed for tests that can catch a sufficient range of illegal drugs, and rule out false positive results with a follow-up test, she said.

I agree that if you receive welfare you should be subject to random drug tests because the government should not be helping people out who are throwing their money away on drugs, when they could be using that money to buy food or pay their bills! What do you think? Do you agree?

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Mar 25 2009

Why is Obama being rude?

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What is going on with President Obama? To me, it seems like he’s been rather rude during the last two addresses to congress/the nation/reporters. During the first address last month he was rather short with many of the reporters and when he was questioned by one of the ladies that has been questioning presidents forever in her career, he was very short with her and even cut her off when she was talking. She was still talking and asking a question and he had moved on to the next guy.

 So, as I watched the presidential address last night I couldn’t help but notice he was doing the same thing. Shouting out people’s names is not a smooth way to transition to the next reporter. It felt very awkward and amusing at the same time. Really weird. Obama also fired phrases at reporters like “Because I like to know what I’m talking about before I speak about something” and “Well, that’s what I’m trying to prevent”. Not that I don’t agree with him that you should know what you’re talking about before you give a speech on it, but still, it seemed very rude and over the top. Some of the questions in both of the addresses he didn’t seem very well prepared for on the contrary though.

He says “ummm” and “uhhh” a lot in his speeches and sometimes there is awkward silence too. What happened to the guy who gave amazing speeches just a few months ago? I guess he had rehearsed them so many times he had it down then, but now he doesn’t have as much time to practice rehearsing and so it comes off much rougher. One article I read said that he uses the teleprompter for everything and the cameramen or people taking pictures have a hard time filming and photographing him during speeches because the teleprompter is always in the way.

I used to love to watch the president’s address to make fun of the facial expressions and the way Bush talked and that slight devilish funny as hell smile he always gave. So now, I like to make fun of the awkwardness when Obama is trying to get each reporter to ask a question and when he answers. He doesn’t have many awkward facial expressions, but his mood and tone are not well received by me. He always seems hurried, rushed and ready to get the questions over with, like he’s being inquistioned or something. I know he’s the president and all and he’s got an insanely busy schedule, but come on, you don’t have to be rude do you? Bush may have not been the best president ever, but at least he wasn’t rude to people asking him questions that the people want answers to.

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Mar 24 2009

What do your dreams mean?

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If you’ve ever dreamt something and wondered what it really meant, then check out the following sites. One of them is an online free dream analyzer that allows you to type in what happened in your dream and it will pull key words out of your dream to allow you to analyze what dreaming about those things could mean. The other site will allow you to search for anything that you dream about and has tons of information on common dreams.

http://www.mydreamvisions.com/dreamdictionary/analyzer.php

http://www.dreammoods.com

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Mar 24 2009

Sneaky Grocery Store Tactics

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Article from Saveyoufool.com:

Grocery stores love fools. They love shoppers that take their time in every aisle, casually browsing through every item on every shelf. And they’re smart (really, just evil) to have devised ways for shoppers to spend longer times in the store. Even a fool knows that the more time you spend in a store, the more items you will end up throwing into the cart.The first step to overcoming the evil tactics stores use is to identify them. Let’s look at these closely. 

  1. The Maze: Notice how the most frequently purchased items like bread, butter, eggs, milk and juice are at the back of the store. To get to them, you have to cross the candy section, the greeting cards, the soft drinks, the jumbo-size bag of Ruffles, the chip dip, and of course the instant-dinner frozen food section. But you won’t get fooled into picking any of these items (unless they’re on your shopping list that you prepared prior to getting to the store).
  2. Middle of the Aisle: Stores know it irritates customers to walk half-way down the aisle to pick up the bottle of Heinz ketchup. Yet, they also know that in the process of walking past the spicy mustard and the red pickles, some fool will load up on another item. For most stores, a shot at an extra sale easily trumps a minor customer irritant.
  3. Eye-Level Product Placement: Manufacturers pay top dollar or negotiate heavily with the store to allow them to place their most popular or expensive products at eye-level in the aisle i.e. the middle shelves (or lower shelves in the candy aisle at children’s eye-level). They’re counting on fools to pick the first item they see on a shelf, rather than looking just a bit further for a bargain.
  4. Checkout Line Heaven: Funny isn’t it how the items you forgot to put on your grocery list are always conveniently available at the checkout line. Such nice folks these retailers. Next thing you know, they’ll have a mini-kiosk setup right outside your house. Remember to make a list of things you need before heading to the grocery store - you don’t want to be suckered into making any impulse purchases, do you?
  5. Mix Things Up: Stores are notorious for moving products around in the store, specifically within the same aisle by a few shelves or to the opposite side of the aisle. Any time spent in the aisle looking for the product is an opportunity to sell the customer the other items that they will now have to glance over.

Other nefarious methods employed by the grocery store include:

  • Use of attractive displays that give the impression of an item on sale when it really is not (e.g. “Great Buy”, “Value Purchase”),
  • Moving things around in an aisle so you have to spend looking for an item you know was just there last week, and
  • Use of flooring or smaller aisles to slow you down

So don’t be foolish and fall for these tricks. There isn’t much you can do to stop the retailers from using them, but knowing they exist and are being actively used against you can make you a far more informed shopper.

My take on it:

Another tactic many people have pointed out to me is that you should only shop on the outer part of the store; don’t go down the aisles unless you absolutely have to. The best deals and the fresh foods are all outside of the aisles. Make a list and stick to it. Use coupons for products you are going to make use of and don’t let retailers fool you into buying a product you don’t really want or need. Also, don’t let them fool you into thinking it may be a good buy too. Keep a price book each week you go to the store or look at the price of products you regularly buy from week to week and notice how the price changes. One week a product may be on sale for $1.00 and the next week the same product may still be on sale, but cost $1.25 now. These are really false sales to make you think the product is on sale, when you can wait another week or two and the product will come back down to only $1.00. Don’t be a fool and waste precious money when you don’t have to.

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Mar 23 2009

Synthetic Blood

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UK scientists plan a major research project to see if synthetic human blood can be made from embryonic stem cells. Led by the Scottish National Blood Transfusion Service, the three year trial could provide an unlimited supply of blood for emergency transfusions. The blood should be free of infections like the human form of mad cow disease. Teams will test human embryos left over from IVF treatment to find those destined to develop into the universal “O-negative” blood donor group.  O-negative blood can be transfused into anyone without fear of tissue rejection and is the only safe option when a patient’s blood group is unknown or not immediately available. This precious blood is in limited supply because only 7% of the population belongs to this blood group. The Wellcome Trust is understood to have promised £3 million towards the cost of the multimillion-pound project, with further funding coming from the blood transfusion services of Scotland, and England and
Wales.
The Irish government is also believed to be involved.  The project will be led by Professor Marc Turner ofEdinburgh
University who is the director of the Scottish National Blood Transfusion Service. He said the work would begin in the next few weeks after final approval had been gained from the relevant research bodies. Stem cells are the body’s master cells, with the ability to transform into any type of tissue. Scientists have already shown it is possible to take a single stem cell from an early human embryo and encourage it to develop into mature blood cells in the laboratory.  And a
US firm called Advanced Cell Technology has managed to produce billions of red blood cells from embryonic blood cells in this way. The challenge now is to scale up the production and move the science from the lab to the bedside, which will take years. Professor Turner said: “We should have proof of principle in the next few years, but a realistic treatment is probably five to 10 years away.”In principle, we could provide an unlimited supply of blood in this way.”
 However, many groups object to the use of embryonic stem cells on the grounds that it is unethical to destroy embryos in the name of science. Josephine Quintavalle of the public interest group Comment on Reproductive Ethics said: “Like so many of the claims associated with embryonic stem cells, this is first steps research rather than a cure around the corner, and just as hypothetical as the rest of the claims which try to justify destroying the human embryo for the benefit of mankind. “Associating this controversial research with a National Blood Transfusion service may even end up contaminating the feel-good image of blood banks. “Those who donate blood but who defend the right to life of the human embryo may be reluctant to continue giving their blood.”

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Mar 22 2009

Sneaky Tactics of Restaurants

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If you’ve been out to eat lately or listening to the news, you may have noticed there are some sneaky tactics coming into play at some restaurants. I understand that many places are having to cut back and that’s fine, but the least they can do is let us know ahead of time exactly what we’re getting and what we’re paying for. Here are some sneaky tactics to watch out for the next time you go out to eat:

1.       Many restaurants are cutting back on portion sizes, but charging the same exact price. So you’ll get a smaller hamburger or a smaller sized dinner plate to make the portions look bigger.

2.       Many restaurants are also cutting back on the expensive ingredients in some of their dishes or purchasing cheaper cuts of beef or putting in fewer shrimp in a meal.

3.       Many restaurants are using frozen, instead of fresh vegetables now because distributors are making fewer deliveries because of the high price of gas.

4.       Many restaurants are using every bit they purchase by using leftover meat and vegetables in things like soup and chili.  

5.       The next time you order a cocktail drink it will most likely be a weaker version, more watered down and with less alcohol.

6.       Many restaurants are buying cheaper ingredients overall.

7.       Many restaurants are cutting costs by using cheaper and less sturdy take out boxes ,  bags, containers and other paper products.

8.       Many restaurants are encouraging servers to push the highest profit items, not necessarily the best tasting ones.

9.       Many restaurants have slowly raised their prices on most of the items on their menu, hoping the majority of people will not notice.

10.   Many restaurants and fast food chains are now charging extra for certain items they didn’t charge for before, like extra ketchup or sauces.

11.   Some restaurants are even begging diners for sympathy and understanding.

Not all of these are sneaky tactics and I have worked at a restaurant before so I know that the costs to operate one add up fast and I’m sure they’re profits have went down, while costs have sky-rocketed. They just need to be clear with customers that this is what they’re doing and this is why they have to do it. Don’t just assume it’s going to be okay with everyone or that no one will notice because there are people all over up in arms and upset by the fact that many places are now charging the same price for something and giving you considerably less. Also, many people are upset that they are being charged for extra sauce or ketchup. All the people working at the restaurants have to do is make it clear from the beginning when they first talk to the customer and let them know “Our portions have changed.” Or “We’re charging an extra 10 cents for each BBQ sauce or ketchup packet that you want over 3 packets.” That way the customer will know ahead of time and not be taken by surprise. Sure, the customer may still be annoyed they are going to have to pay more for more sauce or that they’re getting less and paying the same amount for a meal, but at least this way there is no deception.

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